HELP! i am only 13 and i dont know what is wrong with me.?

yes i maybe over reacting a bit but im just really concerned


and im not good at talking about this stuff with people in real life so i will ask you guys.





okay, first of all, i havent had my period since october 13th and it was my very first one, is that normal? :(





second of all, the thing i am MOST concerned about is there are multiple little dark pinking veins on the bottom of my stomach, like when i stretch out my skin in that particular area you can see them but when you don't they are like dents whats wrong with me! please pleaseee help me.





and no i haven't had sex, i'm only 13.





please atleast try to help me? :)

HELP! i am only 13 and i dont know what is wrong with me.?
I was 13 when I first started bleeding too. I only had four periods that first year. They came every three months. If you're not having sex (good for you!), then I wouldn't worry about it. It's totally normal to be irregular when you first start. School nurses can be really cool about answering these kinds of questions.





The second part, I'm not too sure about. It almost sounds like stretch marks. Your hips are spreading and that can cause stretch marks which are really no big deal. Most women get them in the course of their lives. I tried to find some pics to link for you, but couldn't find one I felt comfortable putting up. Ask your school nurse or a friend's mom or your own mom about it.
Reply:We all have veins and things that emerge when we get older.





Your period is very new at this point and may not be regulated yet to come once a month. But don't worry it will!





The dents may be little fat deposits that happen in the fleshier parts of the body.





Can you ask your Mom to take a peek?
Reply:The veins sound pretty normal. Maybe it's thin skin. I, too, myself have visible veins on my arms.. it's because I have thin skin.





As far as your period, they are always irregular. Since you just got yours a couple months ago, ... being irregular is super normal. I am sure it will come next month on it's due date, if not.. Go see a doctor to get it regular.
Reply:it's not abnormal to not have had another period yet. you are young and they are going to be a little abnormal for a while. the pink things sound like strectch marks. if you are really worried tell your mom or see a doctor.
Reply:The veins are normal..when I stretch out my skin, I can see the veins underneath, too.





Your period is fine. I remember when I started mine. I had it one month. Missed the next. Normal next month. Then had my period for 2 weeks straight the month after that....





Irregularity happens all the time with periods.





Gotta love being a girl =)
Reply:for your period, it's normal.


as you get older, your period becomes more accurate.
Reply:Yes it is normal for your body to pick its time for your period. You are young and your body is still adjusting to changes. The veins that you see might be due to stretch marks. Remember as you grow so does every thing else. When your skin is stretched it will produce those types of veins.


Some think the stretch marks come after you gain the weight and lose it.


Don't be alarmed and enjoy your move into women hood.


If you feel pain or smell a weird odor by all means get to your Doctor. Be sides that you sound pretty normal to me!


LOL and God Bless You Always...
Reply:It's very normal for your first couple periods to be spaced out. When I first got mine,it was in April, but didn't get my second until July. From what you're describing, the veins/dents sound like small stretch marks from growing. If that is what they are, don't worry they do fade. If you are really concerned about them, ask your mom to take you to the doctor to have them checked out.
Reply:Your period will not be regular the first year it comes so stop worrying, nothing is wrong with you, it's normal.The veins are nothing to worry about either. You are just growing up. In time everything will look like it is supposed to. You are only 13 now wait until you are 15 and you will see there was nothing to worry about. There is NOTHING wrong with you sweetie so relax. By the way, my sister never got her first period until she was 16. I got mine at 12, it is all dependant on how fast our body matures. Worry will also delay your period so stop worrying. You are fine.
Reply:Hello Annette,





there is nothing to worry about. You had your first period oct, the 13th, well the second one you can not predict when it is going to come, allthough you may search up about the changes in vaginal mucus that may indicate when you are about to menstruate again. It's normal to have irregular periods the first year(s). Some women never get regular periods and that's normal too. And the time between yoru periods doesn't have to be 28 days either.





About the veins: they may be stretch marks, or you may have thin skin that show your veins. The other thing I was wondering is: do you wear tight pants or jeans often? Because a lot of girls wear pants so tight that this may trouble your blood circulation. If the blood can't flow properly this may cause the appearance of veins too and cause stretch marks as well.
Reply:dont get 2 worried, that may put off your period...