Friday, August 20, 2010

Do i sound that ugly?

i know this sounds pathetic but i have struck out in the dating world for my whole life. i never got that second glance from a guy or anything. just wanted to know if it is how i looked or just the way i acted or just stupid guys. im 15 years old, 5'9, long blond hair, blue eyes, fair skin, not thin but also not fat im average, i can be krazy (when im comfortable only), im smart always an honor student, shy, and i love to play football, horseback ride and basketball and volleybal and many other sports. i can be a complete tomboy but i can also be a girly girl (which im not usually) but please help me. do i sound that ugly to u?

Do i sound that ugly?
what would u like to hear? no ur not ugly? ....seriously though u sound insecure....what do u want to accomplish by having ppl read this? we cant tell if u sound or is ugly by reading about u. i advise u to ask someone around u to tell u what they think about u


then info u present is ur own interpretation of urself so it cant be use to validate if ur are ugly or not because this opinion can only be generated in face to face meetings.


in addition, conciously or subcontiously u do not want to be "ugly" so ur info maybe slightly biased (not trying to be mean)


as for guys not giving u a second glance or w/e it could be other things than looks there maybe some behaviour u are unaware of that pushes them away


ask someone around u what they think of u that will be better use of ur time than checking the ans ppl post here


good luck
Reply:you cant sound ulgy...


why do you feel the need to label yourself tomboy?


i guess this depends on your facial structure as in physical appearance
Reply:no1 can tell without a picture... even if you SOUND pretty, your face could ruin it all
Reply:You're silly. we can't tell from that.
Reply:The only thing is if you dress like a boy they don't like you as much I'm The same way.
Reply:lol learn it most guys dont look at you in the face they only watch as you go
Reply:No lol you dont sound ugly at all.
Reply:let me just say that you are way too young to have "struck out". once you grow up you'll have a lot more confidence with yourself and will not need reassurance from anyone.





you don't sound ugly to me :)
Reply:No, you do not sound ugly sweetie. Sounds like you are having a bit of teen angst. At your age, you will go through an insecure period. You will feel ugly some days, and beautiful on others. It's just that you are in that between period between childhood and adulthood. Things are changing, people are changing, and yes, you are changing too. It's a lot to go through and digest.





Hang in there, it will get better. The insecurities will fade and you will come into your own and discover what a truly beautiful and well-rounded young lady you have become. And remember, never judge a book by its cover, the contents could be truly amazing.





Best wishes!


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