As a girl how can I talk to this guy????

I work with an old college friend of mine. We are both doctors and we work at the same hospital. He is 32 and has never been in a relationship with a woman. I have been pushing him for the last year to go out and meet someone. I finally decided to start yelling at him in a last ditch effort to get him to go out and meet people. He started crying to my surprise. He told me that when he was born, he had a bad circumcision. The doctor cut off too much skin apparently. When he was 20 he had to get 2 reconstructive surgeries to fix it. Unfortunatly it is still badly disfigured. I don't know what to say to him to first of all make him feel better, and second to convince him that a loving woman wont care. Any ideas???

As a girl how can I talk to this guy????
If he is a good friend of yours then you should tell him just what you said... Why would you push him to go out anyway, if he is happy on his own you should have let him do just that. If you like this guy, invite him to go out with you and some friends so he is at least out in the scene.
Reply:give him a lecture on how people don't care about what you look like, if you are a good person on the inside. :)
Reply:I feel awful for him,and you are right, if a woman truly loved him it wouldn't matter,I don't mean to offend you but have you considered sleeping with him?If you're single and since you seem to care,maybe this is one way you could help him.This is a huge burden on him, I truly hope he finds a good woman to share it with.