Girls Need Your Opinion!!?

So my girlfriend absolutely drives me nuts sometimes. There are two things she does that just get under my skin. First she text messages like there is no tomorrow. When she is in the middle of a conversation, she is almost captivated by it. Second she will make plans and at the last minute she will go, "oh I forgot I have this to do can you come over tomorrow?" Now I know she is still into me so thats not the reason. When I tell her about these she makes it sound like its no big deal at even after I planned my day around it. Do any of you women have these traits? How should I approach this? Am I reacting too much? Any suggestions.

Girls Need Your Opinion!!?
I don't know your gf but to me, she seems really immature and not ready for a serious relationship(probably with anybody, not just you). I would say that if she really cared about you, she would take the time that you two had planned more seriously and not blow it off like it's no big deal. So, no, I don't think you are reacting too much. Just think about what you want in a girl/relationship and rethink the one you are in. Good luck!
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Reply:yea i do actually...be a man. put your foot down and just be like "look im sick of your crap i told you i dont like some of those habits that you have and you havent cut them out or even attempted. And ive put my day on hold my life for you and you dont care, your just being selfish." You are not over reacting to this subject at all dont blow up on her though. Tell her she needs to attempt to fix the problem.... and if shes not...shes obviously not interested enough in the relationship and doesnt care enough about you.
Reply:lol...I LOVE TEXTING!!!!!
Reply:I don't think she really is that into you
Reply:tell her to stop texing yuu or text her bc
Reply:im super last minute.


have been my whole life lol.


cant seem to help it now.


and im ALWAYS on my phone texting.
Reply:She is a loser. Wake her up by dumping her
Reply:No, I don't think you're overreacting. I think she's being chidish and selfish with her time.





Say to yourself, 2 can play at that game. Don't pay her any mind for a few days. She'll realize that you're ignoring her and learn not to do it to you again. See how she likes it. :)
Reply:I love texting! I couldnt live w.o texting.
Reply:Start giving her a taste of her own medicine...don't be bullied.
Reply:On the whole "texting thing" If she's under 25 she'll grow out of it. If you want to wait that long. Although not listening to how you 'feel' about how her actions impact you...she may not grow out of that, suonds like she's a bit self-engaged.
Reply:give her a taste of her own medicine, she will see how annoying it is then
Reply:Maybe ya'll can agree on a set number of text messages per date and a deadline to cancel. All you are asking for is a little courtesy.
Reply:calm down, sit her down and talk with her, if she is not listening to u then tell her how u feel, and if she continues to do this, then wats the point of having her in ur life, u want someone u can talk to or listen too. And why do guys think women are so unapproachable, we are normal just like everyone else, but we are more verbal so talkin helps!
Reply:well she texts you because she can't get enough of you!!! just go with it, it's cute!


as for planning, ask her if she has other obligations before finalizing your plans. just talk things out, communicate better. its nothing to get into a fight about
Reply:That;s the difficulty of the female gender. That is where the expression "Women are from mars" comes from. The only thing you can do is learn to live with it. You're not over-reacting, at least I do not believe this is the case.
Reply:Deff not reacting too much. Your woman sounds like quite the high-maintenence case. Personally, I always suggest the tricky: Just be HONEST. I don't know why more people are afraid of this than of the long-term issues with holding back feelings.





Talk to your girl and tell her (in a nice way), "Look sweetie, can you not text me so much? Sometimes I just need a little space and if you give me my room to breathe I'll be able to give you my 110% later" that kind of thing.





And no offense, just saying what it sounds like, but your girly sounds just a tiny bit immature. You might need to wear the pants and set some boundaries otherwise you're in for an inevitable and unhappy break up eventually. If she doesn't like your boundaries, then she's not for you and you could both do better.
Reply:It could work, if you started to do it back.. or that could just make it worse.





I would suggest to tell her it's really getting on your nerves, without being harsh about it.. or else it won't stop.
Reply:She's self centered. Which means you can do one of two things: (1) learn to live with it, or (2) talk to her about it.





If she's young, that could be the issue. Many people are completely self absorbed till late 20s or beyond. So, she may just out-grow it.





Self-centered people think the world revolves around them. This is probably why she can't even understand why you think it's an issue....after all, you having your plans ruined doesn't seem to affect her (sad but true). And you have given her the impression that your world does indeed revolve around her. You really need to talk to her, try to make her see what she is doing. Be warned though, this will NOT be easy! I would recommend trying to address this slowly and see if she is even responsive.





Good luck!
Reply:no i dont i dont call my boo all the time but hey she probley dont what to get hurt or wat so ever and u should appproach this like when yall are talkin just said can u stop that and tell her what she is doin wrong. and i think ur reacting too much so calm down
Reply:i think you might be over reacting but u should tell her about the texting thing.
Reply:No, I do not have those traits, and no, you're not over reacting. If I'm with someone, then I expect them to be with me, not texting someone else. That's just rude. And cancelling plans at the last minute is also rude and inconsiderate. Whether she's conscious of it our not, she's implying that everyone else is more important than you and your time. Tell her to put away her cell phone and cancel the OTHER plans.