I just cant shake my ex girlfriend?

me and my ex were together for 5 years before she cheated on me yeah i was ready to ask her to marry me. but he cheated and i was curious about why the hell do i want her back in many ways my confidence was shot to hell becasue she left me for a guy who came to my house to fight me, in other words a loser immature kid who has a kid, and me im just finished college and i was faithful for 5 years. Its been about 3 weeks and part of me still wants her back, and i told er id give her a second chance i know the trem once a cheater always a cheater.


I also she once told me to move on, and ive been to,d that if i do this will really get under her skin, so im just a cnfused mess becasue i dont want her to be happy id suck it 10 years she was married to the guy after all that she has done.Ive been told yeah she will come back they always do when they see what they have lost, and day by day im getting stronger but it just i love her but i really want her to see what she lost.

I just cant shake my ex girlfriend?
Move on, she doesn't deserve you. Don't rush into anything. Take it one day at a time.
Reply:did you cheat on her? maybe she was making sure you were the one.
Reply:ONLY you can decide what is best for you, however IF IT were ME, I would be long gone from the picture.
Reply:The way I see it, you have a situation here where you need to choose between: 1) staying connected to someone with self-destructive (and hence relationship-destructive) tendencies, or 2) moving on with your life, knowing that it will be painful, but that you will make it through regardless. You can spend a lifetime with someone who is a mess and tell yourself that you are suffering for your love; however, you can also choose to move on to find someone who really accepts your love and shows you true love in return. The choice is really yours. You need to define for yourself what you think love is and should be, and hold to that if you really believe it. Good luck.
Reply:Dump everything you have heard!





YOu make a decision for yourself, and you keep to it. If your decision is that you cannot forgive her transgfression against you, then that is your boundary and your inner ethical code. She has made her choices. Stick to your choices.


Do not react to her, do not respond to her, do not allow her to feel or believe there is any possibibilty for a future together.


You go on your life, continue your education, choose your next partner with the same values as you. This will bring your great happiness and security. There is nothing worse than mistrust or jealousy in a relationship, so don't ever consider entering one where you already have these doubts, this knowledge of her prior cheating and her pushy/dependency ways....





Learn and grow, and your next relationship may be 100 times better! You will thank yourself later.